Monday, December 26, 2011

Blaupunkt Memphis MP66 AM/FM CD/SD/MMC/MP3 Receiver with CD Changer Controls

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Friday, December 9, 2011

HP ENVY 14-1210NR 14.5-Inch Notebook PC (Silver)

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Get the perfect balance of performance and mobility. Play music the way it's meant to be heard using the slim, lightweight HP ENVY 14-1210NR notebook with Beats Audio. Enjoy crystal-clear, studio-quality sound and rock out with a pair of Beats headphones (sold separately). This stylish HP laptop has a laser-etched aluminum finish in carbon relic and a full-size backlit keyboard that's easy to use in the dark. Watch music videos and DVDs, plus view slideshows effortlessly on the 14.5-inch diagonal High-Definition HP BrightView Infinity LED Display The HP ENVY 14-1210NR seamlessly fuses design and technology. It has a fast Intel processor and a large hard drive for your music library, videos and more. The lithium-ion battery lets you work and play for up to 6.5 hours without plugging in your notebook. Integrated Wi-Fi and Bluetooth help you connect and sync your HP laptop to a printer, MP3 player or smartphone without using cables. This notebook also has an integrated webcam, so you can video chat in low-light environments. Plus, transfer photos directly from a memory card to your PC.

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Monday, November 28, 2011

Dual MXCP66 In-Dash Marine AM/FM/CD/MP3 Receiver 6 1/2-Inch Speaker Combo Pack

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CD/MP3/WMA : CD-R/CD-RW compatible • MP3/WMA encoded CD-R/RW playback •Repeat/random/intro •Direct track access •Alphanumeric track search •High-speed audible track search •1 Bit D/A converter •Displays MP3 ID3v1 tags•Displays WMA tags TUNER: US/European frequency spacing •30 Station presets (18FM/12AM) •Auto station store •Preset scan •One-touch memory •Auto stereo/mono USB: Front panel USB connection •Full speed USB (12mbps) •Play MP3/WMA files from most mass storage devices •Charges most USB devices such as a cell phone, iPod, etc. •Provides 5 volts DC, 500mA SPEAKERS: 6.5 inch Dual cone design •Corrosion-resistant ABS construction GENERAL: 1.0 DIN rust-resistant chassis •Import ISO/DIN mountable •Electronic detachable face •Electronic volume, bass, treble, balance, fader •Source audio memory •Rotary encoder control •Programmable turn-on volume •Multi-button power on •Keyless CD eject •3-Pair of preamp outputs •3.5mm Front panel input •USB front panel input •Positive white/black dot matrix type liquid crystal display •Wireless infrared remote •5 Selectable EQ curves pop, jazz, classic, beat, rock •Programmable clock priority •Clock, Mute, Loudness •Conformal coated circuit boards •Illumination dimmer with 3 levels •Selectable scrolling option

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Saturday, November 12, 2011

Dual MXCP7030 In-Dash Marine AM/FM/CD/MP3 Receiver with MWR30-Wired Remote Control

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Sunday, November 6, 2011

The Twinkling Years Of Big Hats And Plenty Of Penguins

!±8± The Twinkling Years Of Big Hats And Plenty Of Penguins

Folk rock legends, Fleetwood Mac changed the face of this genre when they applied themselves with the diversities of Lindsay Buckingham and Stevie Nicks in 1975. This young, talented, but fairly broke couple joined the group after the bands long, established career with Christine Perfect (McVie) as the only female vocal. Domineering the folk rock world with their bluesy sound mixed in with the sultry, low tones of Perfect up until this time. The Nicks/Buckingham outfit launched the group on a unsuspecting, wider audience allowing the alternative talents of the song writing duo to unfold.

In this album we find the very greatest song writing accomplishments from this English/American band up until the time of its release in 1988. Only a year after the incredible success of their 87 album, Tango In The night, it was a wise decision to launch this greatest hits album with immense gusto on the public. Including hits from their 'white album' in 1975 which was the debut album for Nicks and Buckingham up to Tango In The Night, it was a quick scan across the years of the full five member outfit. It was also the same year in which the master behind their success, Lindsay Buckingham decided to leave to peruse a long awaited solo career which was only accepted with optimism by a limited audience. We saw the entry of Billy Burnett, son of the legendary fifties swooner, Johnny Burnett, and guitarist Rick Vito. These two well accomplished guitarists appear on the inside cover photograph with the remaining members of the Fleetwood Mac. It was a brief union with the two young men and after a tour, Fleetwood Mac went through a transition where they came to realise the great gap in their creativity was the unusual, and departed, Lindsay Buckingham.

Presented in no chronological order, these tracks skim over the very tracks that paid their bills. The highest ranking singles of that period are all here, although many Fleetwood Mac followers, myself included, would argue that their very best and most imaginative work is very much absent.

Perhaps, and I say this with in trepidation, the first track we hear on this fairly standard album is the very over rated 'Rhiannon.' Marked in history as the single with the most haunting sound of Nicks' croaky and witch like voice, it failed in my mind to have any lasting effect. I would have preferred to have seen the appearance of 'Gold Dust Woman', from the 'Rumours' album. Firmly seating itself along the bench of mysterious, tribal drum based singles, it is still a favourite amongst Fleetwood Mac fans. Released originally in March 1978, it was not surprising that it failed to make any indentation at the time. Failing to even make the top forty, it now only has come into its own in recent years as being probably one of finest of Fleetwood Mac tracks. With it's unmistakeable guitar riff at the opening, it reveals a tune that couldn't possibly be mistaken for anything else. For anyone lucky enough to have witnessed them live, it was a chance where Nicks would perform the most gliding of dances across the stage covered in floating scarves. A trade mark which caught in quickly with the help of this record.

Undoubtedly, the most optimistic, feel good record by any artist in the twentieth century was 'Don't Stop.' Lyrically born out of emotional break ups and fraught tensions among the members at the time, it appeals to anyone wanting to cheer up and look forward to better things. Fast, catchy and most sing able, this track it a welcomed relief after the minor keys of the previous song. Led, vocally by Buckingham, he wasn't the world's greatest singer, however, he could put his entire being into a song and chant it with vast amongst of energy and strength. It is just merely his vocals on this track that are endearing, fascinating and so full of happiness and hope that keep this jumpy, finger clicking track timeless and ageless. Even in the event of it failing to crack the top thirty in April 1977, it was uplifting enough to stay on our minds for decades to come.

The equally forward thinking, 'Go You Own Way,' follows in hot pursuit on this album, continuing in a happy theme. It is just as vibrant and glowing in its musical anthem. Very much, lyrically in the 'it's over' subject, it still holds us in that bright light of joyful wisdom. Stronger in lead, Buckingham sings a more powerful melody and the great agile chants are only left to the chorus. Including a spiralling guitar riff at the break, it is as definite and conclusive as its subject. Strangely, we remember that back in February 1977, we didn't think much of it. Scraping into the top forty as if no one was looking, it failed to amuse us enough to buy it. We find this hard to believe as this track, again, marks the dignity of the band as well as proving themselves to be craftsmen and professionals at their work.

Winding down, we now take a glimpse at the strong vocal led album, 'Mirage' released in July 1982. The face of Transatlantic music was changing rapidly and this album showed us the path that Fleetwood Mac chose to follow. This track is a predominant piece of vocal led harmonies that was the very basis of the 'Mirage' album. The thunderous instrumental qualities had been dropped, albeit briefly. In this track we find another side to the band. Not only were they all accomplished musicians, individually, but they could also come together with immense tight knitted voices and use themselves as the back bone of a song. 'Hold Me,' was, in verse, a strong yet soft union of the voices of Buckingham and Christine (Perfect) McVie. Woven together like voices of Siamese twins, this track is light, airy and laces electronic keyboards with acoustic guitar. Released in July 1982, it surprisingly failed to enter the chart successfully despite it's unique production and perfectly formed vocal performance.

Another of their 'hits' (and I really can't stand that word) is 'Everywhere,' taken from their 1978 Tango In The Night album. Led by Christine McVie, her voice was just soft and graceful enough to carry this whispery tune. Atmospheric and mysterious, this track epitomised the essence of the Tango album. A slight right hand turn for the band musically, it transported the band firmly into the grasp of the young set. Released in April 1988, it towered over all at number four. The highest position for the band since the arrival of Nicks and Buckingham. Dressed in swirling keyboards and a messy backing of the band's vocals, it is unlike anything ever heard before its release.

Nick's, 'Gypsy,' seems bland in comparison to the rest of this album so far, but as it sinks into our ears, we realise that it was just as much a atmospheric and polished piece as the others. Nick's crackled, country sounding vocal was as mysterious and as 'Celtic' as the subject matter. She brought to the band her ballet styled glides of dance to the stage and her fascination with witchcraft, fairies, ghosts and anything magical entwined her song writing capabilities. The musical backdrop was always just as fitting, as with this record. Released in September 1982, it sat at a miserable number 46. It was a pity but the public weren't quite sure how to accept this occult style of song and sound.

Probably the best track on this album is the inclusion of a very little known song. 'As Long As You Follow,' is led again by Christine who is in haunting heaven. This track bathes you in dreams and relaxes you with its soothing slide guitar giving it a touch of country and at the same time, it will dip you in melted chocolate. Allow this track to lap you with the waters of gentleness. The backing arrangements of the rest of the band's voices will make you think that they quickly invented surround sound and multiplied vastly over night. Soft and sincere in its subject, it is a moving piece yet inoffensive. It is Fleetwood Mac proving to us that at the time of this albums release, they could till pull a brand new rabbit out of the hat with ease. Released in November 1988 with an exceptional live cut of the rock anthem, 'Oh Well,' as it's B side, it climbed rather pathetically to number 66. Not fitting for the Yazz filled charts at the time of the late eighties, it fell on deaf ears. It is within this set on this album, that it truly belongs and nestl4es in cosily very well.

The slightly up tempo-ed 'Say You Love Me,' is a quick jaunt back to Christine's days with Chicken Shack as the feel of this song is very much the same, (pre Fleetwood Mac for this singer/song writer) this track has been taken from the 'white album,' of 1975. Stripped of all puff and fluff from the other tracks, this is certainly dated in its production yet it still stands the test of time as a song in itself. Piano based, Christine is at the keyboards and leads both the lead and the backing vocal. Slightly folksy, it is a camp fire song, with lots of swaying and joining in. Simple in its subject, it is far from the same in its quality. Chirpy and reluctant to give us any more than it has to, it is a pretty, for want of a better term...Released in November 1976, it only managed number 40. All of these flat positions will come to the listener as a massive surprise. It will also make you wonder how on Earth this band ever became as big, internationally as they did...

The boring, whining 'Dreams,' appears next, and one can't help but remember back to recent days when The Corrs literally took this song, ripped it into shreds and threw it around the studio a few times. Then allowing the bruises to show, they promptly released it as a single of their own. It is still only the very fact that Nick's vocals of here, a very young, squeaky quality, that we still remark on this track as being ground breaking. Personally, it never did anything for me...In July 1977, it reached number 9, so we must have liked it at the time. All I know is that I was too young to buy records at the age of five....

Dancing our tango, we are thrown forward a decade as we are launched into 'Little Lies.' Given the first class vocal treatment by Christine McVie, it is laced with the haunting backing vocal of Stevie Nicks. Full in it's base drum beat and neatly decorated with tiny bells and dancing keyboards, juts the percussion element in this track was worth an Oscar. It is enchanting and provocative (but not as much as 'My Sharona by The Knack..') and it will cast a spell over you in the shape of a tall, lanky Mick Fleetwood shaking fierce looking Maracas and chanting..'you will enjoy this record...!' Released in September 1987, it reached number 5.

Perhaps the most captivating song of the album is the ever distant 'Sara,' (pronounced, Sarah) This track it a strong tribal drummed theme that grows ever more cloudy and mysterious as the song continues. Stevie's young, gypsy voice is swathed in soft, whispered backing vocals led by Buckingham who was a man who could do feminine whispers one minute and bear like growls the next. Stevie's voice trails off to much that you actually feel that she's walked away from the microphone and ground out of the building. She is practically standing outside in the street by the end of the song.... I jest, but it is hard to capture this track in a simple piece of prose. It is to be listened to for its amazingly crammed in content. Fleetwood Mac very rarely leave any room left for more percussion improvement and this track is no exception. Released in December 1979, it went straight over our heads and landed itself at number 37. Perhaps it had been a little too deep and meaningful for us to really appreciate it.

Perhaps 'Tusk' could break the hardened prog rock audience of the mid seventies with a bit more gusto. It certainly worked as we all rushed out to get this tribal motioned piece with its experimental brass section and whirling chants of muttering voices. It all sounds awfully like some extreme Yes piece, but somehow 'Tusk,' cut the mark with us. The title came from, apparently, the word that Mick Fleetwood calls his manhood, for want of a better expression! First appearing on the double album of the same name in 1979, it shot straight to number one. Led, creatively by Buckingham, it gave us an insight to the future solo workings of the artist. He had, however, found his experimental behaviour slight clipped in the band, thus prompting his departure in 1988. This track uses the same set up as some of The Beatles working for Sgt Pepper. Creating a back drop of crowds of voices, it chants it's title at repeated moments. Released as a single in October 1979, it only reached number 6. Still, a piece of creative Mac and still treasured amongst fans.

Ending the set, Stevie gives us a performance that would have also suited one of her successful solo albums. Laced with the atmosphere of the members of Fleetwood Mac, it is still a strong Nicks piece. Most average music fans will find this track too middle of the road and too dull, yet Nicks fans (like myself) will be pleased with its appearance. It engages in the usual mass of swirling noise that became the back drop of the very flat and equally received 1990 album, Behind The Mask.' This terrible album was about the worst composition that the band had come up with so far. The event of Buckingham leaving was strong enough t o allow the creativeness of the band to come crashing down to the ground. Any decent Fleetwood Mac fan will notice the disappearance of Buckingham in this track. It lacks the punch and the unique originality that Buckingham brought to the band. However, it is fundamentally a Nick's track. Listeners may feel free to use this particular track as a taste of her solo work if already not experienced.

As with all 'greatest hits' albums, one gets the impression that you're actually listening to the band but only listening to the bits they want you to hear. It's a 'Hey, this was all our good stuff, so forget the bollocks we gave you in between, this is everything we want to be remembered for, and we are strapped for a little cash, so please feel free to buy this, even though our fans will have all of these tracks already...' It is this piece that I have chanting in the back of my mind when ever I see someone drudging out another hits album. Fleetwood Mac, I guess, for this time, could be forgiven as it was their best release until almost ten years later with 'The Dance.' It also marked, and celebrated the arrival home of Buckingham and 'Say You Will,' followed in 2003, just after a ...wait for it...another hits album....arrrrgggghhhh!!!!!

In conclusion, it is a record of all their best single releases, but as you can see, those releases didn't amount to much at the time. Personally, their best work in the 1975 to 1988 period is very much missing. If you could possibly dig deeper into your pockets, then the albums worth purchasing here are the very ones where these songs came from...or for those of you who are lazy and just want a brief history, then you may, buy this one. It will guide you, although, quickly, through the life of Fleetwood Mac....

But there was a hell of a lot more to them that this.......

....But that's another album.....

Stevie Nicks - percussion/vocals

Mick Fleetwood Mac - drums and general mucking about

Lindsay Buckingham - guitars/vocals and anything he could get his hands on

Christine McVie - writer/performer/pianist and generally nice all round person

John McVie - ex husband of Christine and a fairly good guitarist....

All songs written by Fleetwood Mac

1988 Warner Bros Records

Songs taken from;

'Fleetwood Mac' 1975

'Rumours' 1977

'Tusk' 1979

'Tango In The Night' 1988.

Bought on vinyl at a record fair for three pounds, also on CD for six pounds 2001

©Michelle Duffy 2006 (on dooyoo -sam1942)


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Friday, November 4, 2011

Enough About Me, Let's Talk About Me - Narcissism and Detrimental Self Absorption

!±8± Enough About Me, Let's Talk About Me - Narcissism and Detrimental Self Absorption

A Person Who Falls In Love With Themselves Will Find No Equal

In Greek mythology, this guy was a hero who was renowned for his beauty. In the various stories he is exceptionally cruel, in that he disdains those who love him. As divine punishment he falls in love with a reflection in a pool, not realizing it was his own, and perishes there, not being able to leave the beauty of his own reflection.

Coming from the Greek root for "sleep, numbness," Narcissus has spawned a modern psychological concept which many use and understand. The root word does transmit a message. If you are "sleepy or numb" as a personality one could well see how that could be. Narcissus is not only bored, but boring. When you are the best and only subject, things get rather dry. And when you have already fallen in love with yourself, you have no competition. When you are in a race, and you are the only runner, it doesn't stir the competitive juices, or even the fans' juices. Who needs to cheer? Who needs to have a "rooting interest"?

Narcissistic Tendencies

1. Self Absorption - This is the first sign. You will meet lots of people like this. This is where the word "tendencies" comes in. While not full narcissists, many people today play "one upsmanship". They can never just nod and smile and listen and let others tell a story that has its own quaint virtue and is, (drum roll and horns) about somebody else. Immediately, they go through their rollodex reverently and come up with a similar story that is just a little bit better than the one they just heard. Needing constant validation psychologically, but not getting it through healthy means, they just tell their own stories and make themselves feel good. They don't know they are doing it really. If they heard themselves and understood that they are actually supposed to acknowledge when other people are talking, they would probably be appalled, but since they are who they are: sleepy and self-involved, they just rehearse their monologues while others are present.

2. Cruel and Sarcastic - Again, they don't think they are being cruel and sarcastic, but how they relate has an automatic "put down" quality. It is as if your opinion, your observation, your input is substandard. The point here is to get a kind of self-love thrill from referencing one's own masterful identity, against the meager puny self that the other person is burdened with carrying around in their weak little arms. Narcissists are not that smart. That doesn't mean they can't be extra intelligent, they can. If their specific love, passion or avocation is how they see themselves, they can be obsessively fixed on a discipline or area of study. But remember, they don't benefit much from another's point of view. They can lack sophistication and complexity as their basic world is pretty easily organized: There is me and then there is me. There is what I love to read, and don't bother me with something that does not fascinate me. A person who loves a Narcissist has to have patience and hold themselves back at times. If you say, "You just hurt me", the natural response would be: "Don't be so touchy."

3. Unable to Relate - Empathy is a word you hear a lot these days. Sympathy is feeling for a person from your point of reference. Empathy is being able to actually put yourself in another's position. Empathy takes desire, consciousness, sincerity and emotional maturity. They can not relate to your suffering, or your story, or where you are "coming from" because they do not engage in the mental process of putting themselves imaginatively in other people's shoes. This is a polarized world, so you will read articles by writers and listen to conversations at lunch or at work in which you can tell this person does not relate to anything but their point of view. And when you say something it passes, not through an empathic side, but it bounces off of them. Topics are not nuanced. They do not blend points of view, they just keep making their points over and over again. Thoughts don't evolve or get enriched or altered, they simply get repeated back with a different level of loudness. This is why religious and political conversations at parties are not smart. They say: "I came with my fiddle and I am a darned good fiddle player and I don't care about your trombone!" Again, this is a human tendency, but highly exaggerated and extreme when you are dealing with a Narcissist.

4. "What's The Big Problem"? - Falling in love with your own image is very natural. There is nothing wrong with that. I think I am captivating. This personality does not really think they have anything wrong with them. The world is out of step. They are missing the point. They think: "I really am wonderful". They are not self effacing, they are ruinously self-involved and do not see a blemish. A pimple is a beauty mark. If you have a loved one, or important business or employment connection, it's important not to get extra angry at your Narcissist. They are yours to deal with. If you are going to wrestle them two out of three falls, and bring the "truth of God" to their hard little heads, you will probably ruin the relationship by forcing their errors upon them. If you don't care about the relationship, then go ahead and do your worst. But, if you actually love them, or have to get along with them for various reasons, then don't make them admit to error or to having a serious problem.

5. "Of course, I am in love with myself, no one else is!" - The sad part of this personality is that they actually know in the deep interior that other people are not in love with them. It is a Circular Problem. Since no one is in love with me, I must love myself. Since I am in love with me, I don't need anyone else. Therapists will tell you that many of these types had to raise themselves, or were brought up in an environment where they were not directed, corrected or guided. Thus, they begin by thinking, (or not thinking) that they are the source of truth and validation. They don't get the " rough and tumble" of figuring out who they are, and how their own identity is forged by dealing with others.

6. Like Being Lost in the Woods, Narcissus always returns to the Place He Started. - If you have ever been lost in the woods, it is actually amazing how you can return to the neighborhood you were in a few hours ago. They say that this is because we tend to curve as we are thinking we are walking straight. So, give it enough time, and we will make a big curving circle that puts us back where we were. Since this personality has a well-organized life that is essentially simple, they will actually just tend to curve back to their favorite topic. You can spend two hours telling a gripping tale of grief, sadness and torrid adventure, and end up victorious over a once in a life time challenge; you can think: "Man, this is the best story ever!" The Narcissist will patiently listen to you, and you can think you finally have them captivated. And then they have that vacant, sleepy, dull look on their face. It is deeply painful for the subject not to be THEM. Your incredible story is a comic book that they don't care to read. All the time, they are trying to return the topic to themselves. If they can succeed in doing that, then they have done their creative work for the day.

7. Who's The Fairest of them All? - Don't make the mistake of thinking they are the prettiest and most beautiful people around. It is a mistake to think that they grew up looking in the mirror because of their beauty. They can be beautiful or handsome, but they can look like every body else too. The message of the myth is to draw such a silly image that the "dumbness" of their preoccupation is laughable. They fall in love with their own image in the pool. Don't forget the next point: "Not realizing that the image is themselves, they perish at the pool". For normal healthy individuals who are replete with faults and foibles, but are basically sound psychologically, it is easy to be completely confused by this condition. So, pull in some empathy and think about this. They don't wake up every morning and look in the mirror and say: "You handsome Narcissist, how ya' doin?" They wake up every morning with much on their mind. And they are sincerely in love. Don't think of them as consciously self-involved, they are unconsciously self-involved.

"Hi, I'm Joe! I am incredibly self-involved."

If you love them, realize, they are not ever going to introduce themselves that way. In fact, they are not necessarily cocky. They can be brooding, quiet people. Don't draw a caricature of them in your minds. If you love them, have to love them, must be civilized with them and are never going to leave them, because they are in your family or your extended long term friends, just realize they need love like everybody else. In fact they really need your love. It's just that they are not necessarily going to thank you for it. If you go out of your way to bless them with kindness, it will probably not lead to them "seeing the light". They will take your love and kindness as validation of their first and greatest opinion, that they are wonderful and deserving of constant thought and appreciation.

If You Think You Might Be A Narcissist - No Man Is An Island

Those who live in a world of conscious awareness and have their interests in many friends and have connections of kindness and empathy, you might think you are narcissistic. Why? Because, to be concerned with the Self is quite natural. But that is not Narcissism. If you fear you are Narcissistic, then self awareness might be shining a new light on you. There are definite ways of dealing and improving the way you relate to others and frame yourself in your world. Go to your loved ones, professionals, friends and inquire. The world can be a very forgiving place. You are not here to fall apart, descend into muddy self concern and watch your life get more and more chaotic. Some people feel that chaos is the ultimate end of humanity. A downcast and neurotic personality can manifest when they see the world in these black and white terms. Try to see yourself as being a part of something. "No Man Is An Island". Think about it. With the rising of each new day, and a recognition of the boundless mercy in which we are awash, a new grip on your life can be attained.


Enough About Me, Let's Talk About Me - Narcissism and Detrimental Self Absorption

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